I have social problems. When I go back to school I'll be a sophomore. Last year I was so shy. I couldn't be myself and I didn't make any close friends. I was such a push over and my only friend who I can be myself around is my childhood friend from my neighborhood. Everytime we would hang out with friends that live near us I would act crazy and I could be myself. In school its impossible for me to do that. I'm afraid and I don't want to go back to school. What should I do?
Ok, so I thought you may have been shy but you said that your “afraid” of going back to school. Are you being bullied? Or is ONLY because of the shyness? Like you said, you have social problems and it sounds like you may have something called social anxiety disorder. I am not being mean or rude, but I have seen this before. You can google what that means, but basically its when a person doesn’t feel comfortable around other people and will go to great lengths to avoid them. Its natural that you are comfortable around people you already have a connection with but if you are afraid to go to school because of your shyness,that could be a problem. I think you should talk to a guardian, counselor or principal. Please don’t feel ashamed about talking to any of these people. Good luck hun.
this sounds pathetic, but i'm really really pale. like abnormally pale. idk, it like runs in my family or something. & everyone laughs at me for it, and says shit like "do you go out in the sun" "you ugly albino bitch". i know i shouldn't care what people think, and i never used to, but it's starting to get to me. i've tried tanning, everything, but i still stay pale. i feel so different to everyone else, i'm afraid to wear a bikini or even go to the beach. idk what to do about it.. xx
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Don’t feel that way hun. Don’t feel like an outcast simply because you are different. I am really dark skinned. I’m probably the same complexion with Kelly Rowland or darker. I used to get made fun of for being so dark that I hid myself and hated myself because of how I looked. But I grew up, and realized that I wouldn’t allow society to dictate how I should feel about myself. I learned to love myself and to gain confidence in my skin. Although our situations are two extremes of one another, I know how you feel. What you need to do is gain some confidence. Love yourself. No one is perfect. Everyone has flaws. All those people making fun of you have imperfections. Next time someone says that again to you, own it! If you say, “yes I’m pale so what??”, they can no longer hurt you. Take away their power they think they have over you. If possible avoid these negative thinking people and surround yourself with people who love you and uplift you. You can also use fake tans or spray tans if you want a bit more color though. If you still wanna talk, you can email me at email@example.com . :)
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Hi hun *waves* Aww thank you for the kind words, and I’m sorry for replying late, been busy with school work. I give advice on every and anything my dear! Just remember, I’m no therapist :) You can email me at firstname.lastname@example.org for more personal matters.